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Originally Posted by vivianward
Being a SB is actually hard work. I know many of you must have thought - what is so hard to just open your legs? When I first started, I thought it would be easy. I have a pleasant face, I dress well, I articulate well, etc. But I was so wrong. I am not available and out there for anyone, hence when I meet somebody, I do my homework well. I start to read alot more to improve my knowledge and keep myself updated with current affairs.
Trust me, an SB's looks/body is important but having a smart brain and good personality is what that will keep the SD coming back. You have to think of yourself as a business and as a business you need investors, which SDs are the ones.
If I may be honest, the sugar industry has been brought down by people who are not supposed to be in it. Low ballers, escorts, agents, free riders, etc. Men who does not fit in are in it, women who does not have what it takes are in it. I have learnt that being rich does not not mean being generous, and being middle - upper middle class does not mean he will not be generous.
I am currently taking a break from these. I do have a western SD who comes here once every few months for business, and I keep him company for the days that he is here. He is a true gentleman, a romantic, kind and sincere person.
My best return was $5000 for a week (only a night of intimacy) and a Chanel bag from a businessman - that makes it about $12,000. Ladies, a true SD will almost never ask you for what you want, because he should be very experienced and will know what will make a SB's heart flutter  |
What define a "upper middle class" because its differ depending on the age group you are in.
The S$5000 for a week and a chanel bag is definitely cool. There are really extreme rich people up there.
My best was to give my sugar baby 5400 and a gift worth 700 for 3 meeting. I think there is always people higher. and to have another SB at the same period(both my SB know i got 2 SB at that time) and give her 4k for 2 meets (but got dis-engage after I found out she still actively finding SD - means she not exclusive for me).
Low baller a lot, you just see the forum you know liao. Some want pay 10,000 but want everyday sex , some troll.
Some only pay after finish the deed, i also hear from cases where the guy dont pay after doing it. Some offer 1k , 2k and a lot here asking for FwB, some post their dick photo and think its arouse the lady.(maybe ? rare case) I think dick photo won't make the heart flutter for SB, its the money and the gentlemen , on how the SD treat the SB also.
Majority of Singaporean at 30s are only making at average 4k - 6k sgd, a SB cost at least 3k sgd, I think its really hard to afford 1.
A lot ask for *pay per meet* and what does that make the SB, no different from escort because of the low price and easy entry for many low baller.
SB need do a lot more than just sex, I think the companionship, chat and to make the guy feel relax. I will be turn off badly by chao ah lian or ladies that spur vulgars but I am okay with Lady with Tatoo but speak in a polite way, because SD are mostly more successful people who observe behaviors.
Definitely there are a lot of SD that doesn't give a shit about the SB life and just sex, finish, disappear.. then message the SB again for next sex session. disappear. repeat cycle. this kind won't last.
Just visit my SB yesterday at 1230am and stay at her place till 3 near 4am, 10-20 minutes of action (too long no sex cant last) and 3 hours of chatting.. talking about a business venture that she going start.. her life.. my recent happening.. watch her eat, she serve me tea.. and a lot things.. we used to date at hotel but recently goes to her house (she want help me save money and she no need travel much haha)
Thanks for sharing and hope to hear more
