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Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

Definition, personal experience



Little 3s 小三 aka mistresses, gfs when you are married
- Will and likely involve money
- She starts off respecting and knowing you have a wife and says she doesn't want to break you up or come in between
- Later she wants more, either money or more of you
- She might tell you to get divorced
- On your side when it was at FB stage, you just thought about your dick, telling yourself its not going to ruin your marriage, you can pull out anytime. When it moves into GF stage, you still think of the sex, but now it lessens, but the commitment and emotions become more.
- When in this stage, your marriage is threatened.
- Its painful to let go, its painful to stay on

My understanding of a xiao san too! A FL ccant be catergorised as a xiao san!