[Shadow_warrior]

Definition, personal experience

FBS
- FBs its simple, you screw and you stay out of each other lives
In a way you are also putting up boundaries and the only open one is the dick to hole.
You don't share your life, or personal stuff, problems. You might joke about some work related matter, but not telling the person what you do or what you work as. Its a weird relationship but the objective is sex, and the chit chat is just small talk to break ice.
- Can be ONS, a few rounds, but when it ends, its okay, have a beer you forget about it.

Little 3s 小三 aka mistresses, gfs when you are married
- Will and likely involve money
- She starts off respecting and knowing you have a wife and says she doesn't want to break you up or come in between
- Later she wants more, either money or more of you
- She might tell you to get divorced
- On your side when it was at FB stage, you just thought about your dick, telling yourself its not going to ruin your marriage, you can pull out anytime. When it moves into GF stage, you still think of the sex, but now it lessens, but the commitment and emotions become more.
- When in this stage, your marriage is threatened.
- Its painful to let go, its painful to stay on