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Originally Posted by randyrockhard
I never managed to reach the casual-ness of being FB with my flings. I suppose the sense of sadness when I tried to dismiss the entirety of the person that I make love with, inevitably became too much for me to bear.
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feel you brother. I concur completely
its because of the good sex, and the feelings, the intense passion that makes us after a while "KC" by the whole relationship
can you really fuck without any emotion? or transferring any energy to the other besides fluids? In Chinese TCM and Indian Medicine, there is a transfer of much more.
That's why some/many bros after going to the same ML/WL for a while, become KC by the girl. (there's a whole thread on this about falling in love with a FL)
If sex can just remain mechanical, and just do it, that's great. But if the person changes his/her mind or start chasing an end or more, that's where the trouble starts.
My thoughts are the same as yours, it ends in pain and hurt