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Old 27-09-2018, 01:11 AM
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Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

Hi bros, not sure if the right sub forum actually but I don't know where else to put it.


I am quite new to the scene. And this might sound weird but when visiting FL/ML, I am actually very interested in their life story. why they do what they do, how long they've been here, what do they do IRL if they're doing this only part time etc etc

I know some of them obviously lie about these stories, but to me knowing and asking this enhance the realness and the feeling of the engagement if you know what I mean.


Just wondering what is the proper etiquette though if there is one. Do you usually ask questions like these to the girls ? Obviously I don't want to make them uncomfotable as well, since it might result in a bad service.
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Old 27-09-2018, 11:27 AM
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

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Hi bros, not sure if the right sub forum actually but I don't know where else to put it.


I am quite new to the scene. And this might sound weird but when visiting FL/ML, I am actually very interested in their life story. why they do what they do, how long they've been here, what do they do IRL if they're doing this only part time etc etc

I know some of them obviously lie about these stories, but to me knowing and asking this enhance the realness and the feeling of the engagement if you know what I mean.


Just wondering what is the proper etiquette though if there is one. Do you usually ask questions like these to the girls ? Obviously I don't want to make them uncomfotable as well, since it might result in a bad service.
You should NEVER ask such questions. It is a gross invasion of their private lives which are none of your business.

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Old 27-09-2018, 11:45 AM
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

i agree with sam .. whores are purely for bonking..

unless u are journalist and writing an article on their life..why wont you want to interview them before bonking them...



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Hi bros, not sure if the right sub forum actually but I don't know where else to put it.


I am quite new to the scene. And this might sound weird but when visiting FL/ML, I am actually very interested in their life story. why they do what they do, how long they've been here, what do they do IRL if they're doing this only part time etc etc

I know some of them obviously lie about these stories, but to me knowing and asking this enhance the realness and the feeling of the engagement if you know what I mean.


Just wondering what is the proper etiquette though if there is one. Do you usually ask questions like these to the girls ? Obviously I don't want to make them uncomfotable as well, since it might result in a bad service.
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Old 27-09-2018, 09:32 PM
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

Better throw away the idea of making your whore into your gf pls.
This advice is to save u, really.

Even if they tell u their story, very high chance it might turn out to be false. Really must beware.
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

I always ask personal questions.
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Old 28-09-2018, 12:17 PM
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

I should have listened to boss Sam long time ago save me alot
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Old 28-09-2018, 08:33 PM
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

Of cos can la, u pay them more then their story will be nicer lol...
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

If you are just kpo want to know stories, no harm asking. If you going after emotional attachment, then I would say the same as all other bros: Whores are for fucking, not loving! Some FLs I had were quite chatty, but they will usually just give some vague answers like work in factory during the day, student back in China, etc. You'll get more traction chatting about things like what they like to eat here and then moving from there. If the session was good, you'll get to hear some rather interesting topics I do most of the talking after sex. At the start, they just want to get over with it and get paid. But after the session, before paying, if still got time and the session was good, some don't mind having a chat to pass time.
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

The moment you show interest in their personal life, it saves them the hassle of finding the right moment to tell you their soap opera sad stories. They will immediately know you are a potential KC target, coz seasoned cheongsters will only be interested to unlock more off menu items. If you are trying to use the tactic of showing concern to unlock more freebies, just be mindful that these ladies are not stupid too, you may end up kena outplayed and land yourself into a shitload of financial and emotional troubles. If you cheong a little longer you will realize the story of the same ML/FL will keep changing, coz they tell too many stories to to many potential carrots till they cannot keep track. It is hilarious to be honest. So ask yourself this, why would you even want to hear different lies? There will not be genuine emotional attachment if the person is not telling the truth, and please don't be a fool and start telling them your REAL personal woes. They are good at sniffing out what you lack in your life and pretend to be willing to fill the void. These ladies have evolved, so unless you are very confident you can outstrategise them, you are better off just keeping your interactions at small talks, since you seems like the kind who prefer a bit more bonding than just the physical pleasure. But when the sad stories start to come, please, move on to the next ML/FL. Don’t waste your time and risk kena played.
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

I think asking basic questions is alright.
Unless one wants to develop further relationship then is different matter.
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you paid the money you can ask anything you want
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

Follow what Sam said man. Honestly, there is nothing wrong with it really, but what is the point? U are paying them to suck your dick, you are not their counsellor. Dont carry extra emotional baggage for nothing. Its like you wont suck another guy's dick for free either. Same logic.
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

As with most commercial transactions, it is polite to say

"Hi"
"How are you doing? Nice to meet you."
"I have a package that you would find very attractive"

After the pleasantries is done, you move on to the deed. After the deed

"Thank you very much"
"It was nice seeing you"
"Hope to see you again" - Only in rtf scenarios

Banter in between is irrelevant.
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

bro, no need to be too emotionally attached. Basic questions are fine la but anything personal is no need. Just as others have said, you are paying for their time. If you end up having SB or see a certain lady a lot than maybe a different story because emotions does come but honestly not worth the emotional rollercoaster.
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Re: Asking personal questions to FL acceptable ?

i guess reading fiction books are way more non fiction than their life stories
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