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Old 25-10-2018, 04:21 PM
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What would you choose? BJ or Love?

I gave up a relationship just because the girl said that she will never be able to perform BJ. She's a virgin and nv have bf before... 35 yrs old already. Not chio... but when with her, I genuinely felt her affection and love... Something very hard to find nowadays...

But in the end, i told her if we cant do intimate things together then there's no point being together. Friends chided me saying "bro, you can always get BJ elsewhere" But deep down, I feel guilty if I do that.
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Old 25-10-2018, 05:20 PM
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Re: What would you choose? BJ or Love?

No BJ and u choose to breakup with her?
Than please break up with her. She deserve better!
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Old 25-10-2018, 07:21 PM
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Re: What would you choose? BJ or Love?

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I gave up a relationship just because the girl said that she will never be able to perform BJ. She's a virgin and nv have bf before... 35 yrs old already. Not chio... but when with her, I genuinely felt her affection and love... Something very hard to find nowadays...

But in the end, i told her if we cant do intimate things together then there's no point being together. Friends chided me saying "bro, you can always get BJ elsewhere" But deep down, I feel guilty if I do that.
You deserve better. BJ is a basic sex act between a couple. Refusing to do this for you means she will refuse to do many other things for you and I mean non sex acts. She's just being lazy and selfish or too opinionated. Move on, don't expect her to love you because she won't. You deserve better.
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Old 26-10-2018, 07:58 AM
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You deserve better. BJ is a basic sex act between a couple. Refusing to do this for you means she will refuse to do many other things for you and I mean non sex acts. She's just being lazy and selfish or too opinionated. Move on, don't expect her to love you because she won't. You deserve better.
Agree totally.

People underestimate the importance of intimacy to sustain /maintain a relationship. BJ is like so freaking basic, it's like Fish (Sex) and Chips (BJ) always paired together. And the fact that you asked her to BJ clearly means you view it as an important part of your sexual life with her.

To be fair, maybe she is scared, just coax her and assure her your affection with words and action. And in your part please be considerate and wash your dick clean. If after doing all these her reply is still a dead NO WAY, then forget it. MOVE ON.

Plenty of hotter girls out there who are willing to BJ you and even do MORE, and i don't mean ML/FL. If a girl really loves you, they are willing to do A LOT of kinky things and enjoy the process, you will be surprised bro.
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Old 26-10-2018, 08:35 AM
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Re: What would you choose? BJ or Love?

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No BJ and u choose to breakup with her?
Than please break up with her. She deserve better!
in total agreement! better for her to be with someone who respects her decision
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Re: What would you choose? BJ or Love?

U make the right choice by breaking up with her. She definitely deserves someone with a brain size bigger than their prick.
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Re: What would you choose? BJ or Love?

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I gave up a relationship just because the girl said that she will never be able to perform BJ. She's a virgin and nv have bf before... 35 yrs old already. Not chio... but when with her, I genuinely felt her affection and love... Something very hard to find nowadays...

But in the end, i told her if we cant do intimate things together then there's no point being together. Friends chided me saying "bro, you can always get BJ elsewhere" But deep down, I feel guilty if I do that.
Dun worry..u made the right choice. Girls usually at beginning of relationshjp will show best behaviour...but when married...true colour comes out. Good that she tell u now rather thanafter married say no more bj. If she not open to bj...she will not be open to other thi gs n as usee other married bros always kpkb....so good u cut off ur lost first.

Dun bother with those who screw u saying u break up over a bj...they dun see the bigger picture.
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Re: What would you choose? BJ or Love?

This kinda relationship is too boring......dont be a idiot ..end it off.
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Re: What would you choose? BJ or Love?

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I gave up a relationship just because the girl said that she will never be able to perform BJ. She's a virgin and nv have bf before... 35 yrs old already. Not chio... but when with her, I genuinely felt her affection and love... Something very hard to find nowadays...

But in the end, i told her if we cant do intimate things together then there's no point being together. Friends chided me saying "bro, you can always get BJ elsewhere" But deep down, I feel guilty if I do that.
She's a virgin and has never done it before, quite obviously a prude as well. So if you want your BJ you have to work for it. Have you guys made out yet? Tried teasing her any? Ate her cunt? Made her cum? Stoked her fires?

If you haven't done any of those, let's not talk about a prudish girl, nobody other than whores would wanna suck you off.

Also, if you're gonna break up over a girl who you feel "genuine affection and love" over not receiving BJs... then yea you need to reevaluate your life.

Good luck.
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She's a virgin and has never done it before, quite obviously a prude as well. So if you want your BJ you have to work for it. Have you guys made out yet? Tried teasing her any? Ate her cunt? Made her cum? Stoked her fires?

If you haven't done any of those, let's not talk about a prudish girl, nobody other than whores would wanna suck you off.

Also, if you're gonna break up over a girl who you feel "genuine affection and love" over not receiving BJs... then yea you need to reevaluate your life.


Good luck.
What about woman who don't do sex but likes to hug you. Don't recognise you as bf but let you kiss. Cannot hold hand in public.
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What about woman who don't do sex but likes to hug you. Don't recognise you as bf but let you kiss. Cannot hold hand in public.
Than obviously u have been Friend zoned......
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What about woman who don't do sex but likes to hug you. Don't recognise you as bf but let you kiss. Cannot hold hand in public.
Don't think you're friendzoned because friends don't kiss (unless its one of those friendly peck on the cheek).

But based on the other stuff - dude you're a spare tire, she has another man. Either get off her hook ASAP, or just treat her as a side chick.

Good luck.
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What about woman who don't do sex but likes to hug you. Don't recognise you as bf but let you kiss. Cannot hold hand in public.
Maybe just a part time companion when lonely, if you are not the bf and can kiss etc, quite high chance others can too. I think it's good to keep the line clear in order not to get hurt in future.
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My gf don’t let me cim. I damn sian. But she AR me so it’s okay
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