Where did u find your FWB?

[Anomynous]

Originally Posted by boobslovers

tinder - works.

Bruh no idea what’s wrong with my app, but they keep giving me the same repeated people over and over. There’s no one new and I nvr gotten a single match.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

I am 52 this year.

Yachting club.
(Met a model, dated twice then crashed. Had a light kiss on the lips, that was it)

Baking workshops.
(Plenty of flirts but not to my liking unfortunately)

Walking tours.
(Had been to 3 tours so far and one hit for each one. Only lasted 3 months about. Causal flings and sex. Easy come and easy go)

Dance classes.
(This is my fave and I highly recommend this. This is my mecca for pussies for all races, nationalities and age groups. Had 6 flings to date and the best part, they were causal about it. Nice!)

Toastmasters course.
(One hit and we are still together since 2016 )

Alliance Française de Singapour.
(Had 2 flings lasted for 4 months each.)

Dive courses. Follow by dive trips.
(Had 4 flings each lasted 3 months while one is still ongoing since 2018. This one is a keeper )

Cooking classes.
(Attended 2 different course. Had 5 flings from them, lasted 2 months each there about. Met a Russian lady, it was a whirlwind sex until her husband's work got the sack and left. We were fucking hard for a good 2.5 months on every other day)

Facebook home cooked food group
(This is a constant rich ground for lonely pussies. I had at least 6 flings from there and still on holding onto 1 since 2017. Keeper this one )

Facebook Foodie group
(Another very good source. Had 2 flings from there and one lasted 1.5 years because her children found out about us )

Overseas skydiving trip
(Met one of my fave FB. Still together since 2019, definitely keeper )

Mountain climbing trip
(Went Lombok. There I didn’t do any hookup as I wasn’t feeling too great. Probably it was the altitude, but it was fun. Our group’s neighbouring tent, a group of Japanese women were fucking an Indonesian porter from the group)

Running groups
(Joined 2 groups. Managed to grab a SYT who was 22 years old while I was 41 then. Lasted 5 months)

Local animal shelter volunteer program
(The moment I joined I met one and she is one of my fave FB. Started since 2017 and she is 15 years younger than me. She gave birth last year and we ended it in a nice way)

good share....you must be quite successful and the women are attracted to you.

[NaughtynSensual]

Originally Posted by dyelook

when's the interview?
me wanna camp for queue number...

What interview? Just need to enrol in baking classes!

[Chua Soi Lek]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

good share....you must be quite successful and the women are attracted to you.

I also hope I can be so successful ...

[secretlurker88]

Uncle, you are my idol..

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

ya man long list
Let's be honest. I dont have the looks or the bod to boost.
I can only rely on my charm.
Use my rizz on them so that i can jizz on them later.

The best and optimal settings to use your rizz, is a casual setting.
An unexpected setting. U hang around prowling.
Observe and then go for it with a light nudge.
If fail, no big deal lah. Shake the fuck off and move on.
No one cares and no one keeping score.

From my experience, such activities work best for me.
But of course i have not use dating apps before so i cant really compare.
Though so, i believe i thrive in such an environment.

I am sure many understand what i am talking about here.
U will be surprised, looks only work for some women, really.
The rest is all about your rizz.

[dyelook]

Originally Posted by NaughtynSensual

What interview? Just need to enrol in baking classes!

you open a baking class & i enrol arh?

[NaughtynSensual]

Originally Posted by dyelook

you open a baking class & i enrol arh?

No lah! I can only bake chocolate cake. 😈😈😈

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by NaughtynSensual

No lah! I can only bake chocolate cake. 😈😈😈

I am extremely good at baking chocolate bake, need you to taste test mine. HAHAHA.

[Cheeseburger03]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

I am 52 this year.
Never use dating app or chats for such per se.
But i did signed up for these activities over the years. Part interest and part 'looking around'.
There were quite a lot more than these.
These are the more memorable ones with the highest hits rate.
I have never looked back since, good ole times

Yachting club.
(Met a model, dated twice then crashed. Had a light kiss on the lips, that was it)

Baking workshops.
(Plenty of flirts but not to my liking unfortunately)

Walking tours.
(Had been to 3 tours so far and one hit for each one. Only lasted 3 months about. Causal flings and sex. Easy come and easy go)

Dance classes.
(This is my fave and I highly recommend this. This is my mecca for pussies for all races, nationalities and age groups. Had 6 flings to date and the best part, they were causal about it. Nice!)

Toastmasters course.
(One hit and we are still together since 2016 )

Alliance Française de Singapour.
(Had 2 flings lasted for 4 months each.)

Dive courses. Follow by dive trips.
(Had 4 flings each lasted 3 months while one is still ongoing since 2018. This one is a keeper )

Cooking classes.
(Attended 2 different course. Had 5 flings from them, lasted 2 months each there about. Met a Russian lady, it was a whirlwind sex until her husband's work got the sack and left. We were fucking hard for a good 2.5 months on every other day)

Facebook home cooked food group
(This is a constant rich ground for lonely pussies. I had at least 6 flings from there and still on holding onto 1 since 2017. Keeper this one )

Facebook Foodie group
(Another very good source. Had 2 flings from there and one lasted 1.5 years because her children found out about us )

Overseas skydiving trip
(Met one of my fave FB. Still together since 2019, definitely keeper )

Mountain climbing trip
(Went Lombok. There I didn’t do any hookup as I wasn’t feeling too great. Probably it was the altitude, but it was fun. Our group’s neighbouring tent, a group of Japanese women were fucking an Indonesian porter from the group)

Running groups
(Joined 2 groups. Managed to grab a SYT who was 22 years old while I was 41 then. Lasted 5 months)

Local animal shelter volunteer program
(The moment I joined I met one and she is one of my fave FB. Started since 2017 and she is 15 years younger than me. She gave birth last year and we ended it in a nice way)

Wow the first thing that strike me is ... Uncle has a lot of free time?

Just kidding, but how did you manage to find time for so many activities. I finish work go home left half life aldy lol

Also curious... did you join these activities with the intention/goal of picking up some girls, or did you join them out of genuine interest and the girls happen to come along?

Thanks for your advice Uncle

[NaughtynSensual]

Originally Posted by sbwow

I am extremely good at baking chocolate bake, need you to taste test mine. HAHAHA.

Pretty sure a handful of us are good at that! 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by alea

Great list! Are you married and how do you find time for these many acitivities?

Married for 20 years liao.
Been snacking for 20 years too.
But not every week. At the beginning was more active.
Then modify the routine to suit the married life.

I am not justifying my actions. I love my wife.
I just cant stop snacking. I dont promise the world to the others.
I dont invest emotionally too. I treat them as pussies but with respect.
And i only hook up with those who are not emotionally needy or weak.

There are a few FWB that dumped me after a few fucks, i have no hard feelings.
Life goes on lah.

In the beginning of my marriage, snacking is only done on weekends.
As the years went by, i established a 'me-time' routine.
Have FWB or not, i will leave the house on the planned slot so that my wife does not suspect.

It takes a lot of planning and acting.
In front of my wife, i dont show enthusiasm on those 'me-time' days.
Just treat it matter-of-factly even if the FWB is too good to miss.
And the bedroom routine with wife has to maintain and dont deviate.

[marlboro]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

I am 52 this year.
Never use dating app or chats for such per se.
But i did signed up for these activities over the years. Part interest and part 'looking around'.
There were quite a lot more than these.
These are the more memorable ones with the highest hits rate.
I have never looked back since, good ole times

Yachting club.
(Met a model, dated twice then crashed. Had a light kiss on the lips, that was it)

Baking workshops.
(Plenty of flirts but not to my liking unfortunately)

Walking tours.
(Had been to 3 tours so far and one hit for each one. Only lasted 3 months about. Causal flings and sex. Easy come and easy go)

Dance classes.
(This is my fave and I highly recommend this. This is my mecca for pussies for all races, nationalities and age groups. Had 6 flings to date and the best part, they were causal about it. Nice!)

Toastmasters course.
(One hit and we are still together since 2016 )

Alliance Française de Singapour.
(Had 2 flings lasted for 4 months each.)

Dive courses. Follow by dive trips.
(Had 4 flings each lasted 3 months while one is still ongoing since 2018. This one is a keeper )

Cooking classes.
(Attended 2 different course. Had 5 flings from them, lasted 2 months each there about. Met a Russian lady, it was a whirlwind sex until her husband's work got the sack and left. We were fucking hard for a good 2.5 months on every other day)

Facebook home cooked food group
(This is a constant rich ground for lonely pussies. I had at least 6 flings from there and still on holding onto 1 since 2017. Keeper this one )

Facebook Foodie group
(Another very good source. Had 2 flings from there and one lasted 1.5 years because her children found out about us )

Overseas skydiving trip
(Met one of my fave FB. Still together since 2019, definitely keeper )

Mountain climbing trip
(Went Lombok. There I didn’t do any hookup as I wasn’t feeling too great. Probably it was the altitude, but it was fun. Our group’s neighbouring tent, a group of Japanese women were fucking an Indonesian porter from the group)

Running groups
(Joined 2 groups. Managed to grab a SYT who was 22 years old while I was 41 then. Lasted 5 months)

Local animal shelter volunteer program
(The moment I joined I met one and she is one of my fave FB. Started since 2017 and she is 15 years younger than me. She gave birth last year and we ended it in a nice way)

Legend Uncle

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Chua Soi Lek

But bro can share how you deal with the following:

In a group activities, how to make your move when there are also so many buayas around waiting to pounce ?

Thanks

What makes me more successful than most men is this, i just go and try.
My numbers for hits are not high. I also crashed and burned in straight flush before.
But i dont care, no one gets hurt right? Dust off and try again at the next water hole.

My point is this, to be a good player in this game one needs to be willing to try and try again even if they crash and burn.
No one gives a fuck if u fail. No one remembers u for fuck sake, right?

Just take part in an activity. Study the group.
Be friendly. Watch their reaction around u.
There will be those obvious, "Leave me alone" types, so respect that.
And those "I am friendly but no more", this type is a good start.
Then those, "I am here for the activity only", same leave them alone.
The prize and ultimate goal type in any activity is this type.
"I am here to make friends and see what happens".

How u know if that pussy is this type? Well u need to try first.
Try means get to know her. U have to know if u are her type.
If u are, then take your time and see what could happen next.

Why i keep taking part in such activities is because over time, i can read body language, tone, facial expression quite well.
A bitch in heat, that is priceless only if u can spot it.
The most important thing in all this is how i carry myself.

I must appear friendly but know personal space.
I must appear to be gentleman as in respecting women and not a desperate dickhead.
I must appear to give off positive vibe. I must be a conversationalist.
Ok this part being conversationalist, it works very well for me.
I am not saying that if u are not then u got no pussies.
Just take it this way. If u are a girl and u are in a group activity.
What kind of men do u find u are comfortable with.

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

good share....you must be quite successful and the women are attracted to you.

I think those women that were and are my FWB, enter into this because of my age when i hooked up with them.
My age plays a larger part and i verified this with ALL of them.

Based on the FWB i had and ended plus those still with me, the numbers are like that.

Younger than me by more than 10 years is 50% of my 'collection'.
Younger than me by more than 13 years is 20% of my 'collection'.
Older than me is 20% of my 'collection'.
Almost same or about my age is only 10% of my 'collection'.

Of course the age difference part is also dependent on my age when i hooked up with them. It is a relative comparison.

Based on my numbers, i have the most hits and easiest time getting them is when i hit 40 years old onward.

As for the successful part, this part is a bit grey.
If i try my move at someone and she is more interested in my profession, that is a deal breaker for me.
I am more interested in a woman who is impressed by my availability, as in to meet up when she wants.

So in a nutshell, my FWB were/attracted to me is because of our age difference which can be translated into maturity that she needs of me.
And the availability cater for her.
Good thing is not about my looks or my bod otherwise i am quite fucked.
Which is the most important point here.
There is someone out there wanting to stray and snack the forbidden fruit.
That someone is looking for the same mind-liked person, that would be their priority. Looks should be a bonus.
At least that is how i see it

[UncleHasBeen]

Ok before everyone idolize me due to my hits number hold your horses first.
My hits are mostly married women, divorced and separated women.
I have less than 10 single women as FWB.
I just want to clarify this part. And i am married for 20 years.
So it is really nothing to idolize or amaze at.
Women who are of the above status are the best FWB material for me.
So my posts are strictly within the context of where to find FWB for me.
And my FWB are mostly of those status

i dont want to give false hope, wrong hope and messed up advice to the wrong crowd