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Old 21-02-2018, 12:14 PM
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I was faithful for 26 years but sexless for 4 years plus 2 decades of emotional abuse...finally just told my self to hell with it and visited FL for release. Wanting to end the marriage off but just never quite got the courage ...kids are lovely and in University... feeling really sucks thinking how life has passed me by and I am still not doing anything.
Now i welcome myself to this club. I just got separated after 16 years of marriage. Now at age 49+ being single again.
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Now i welcome myself to this club. I just got separated after 16 years of marriage. Now at age 49+ being single again.
hey man! welcome! was it not salvageable?

Imagine in a room when she is teaching your kid and u ask her how is his progress, she ignores you even after you repeated your question the 3rd time...feel like giving her a tight slap.
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hey man! welcome! was it not salvageable?

Imagine in a room when she is teaching your kid and u ask her how is his progress, she ignores you even after you repeated your question the 3rd time...feel like giving her a tight slap.
Are you ok? After work, I teach my kid. She goes zumba. When she is back, she asks me How's his progress. So, I give her the full executive report. You so good deal still want to complain?? So easy, why don't you teach?
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hey man! welcome! was it not salvageable?

Imagine in a room when she is teaching your kid and u ask her how is his progress, she ignores you even after you repeated your question the 3rd time...feel like giving her a tight slap.
I know the feeling. my wife knows nothing about me. she doesn't know where I go, what I do, problems I have.

tried years ago talking to her, I do love to communicate, but it was always talking to myself and her not listening. So I stopped.

If anyone thinks that a FB or Gf or third party will solve the issue, it wouldn't. You will be in the same shit again.

Something about women once they condition themselves, to have that response towards a person, they hardly if even go back. Self reflection and change in marriage or relationship is not their strong suit

was watching some old videos, that back in the day, the older women wouldn't let the younger daughter in laws, eat full, sit down, kept them busy, hardworking, busy. I wonder why they made younger women go through so much hardship. Of course, we are not in that age anymore, and as a china PRC said to me, women used to do everything, men were the king, now women want everything and men become the slave.

20 years ago women said they are incredible, they multi-task. They can hold down full time jobs, take care of the house, take care of the family, take care of their man. And yes, there was a time it was so.

Most women today cant cook cant clean, have strong opinions, they don't take care of their men. Men on the other hand can cook, clean, take care of themselves, but have allowed the lady so much room and respect, that its no longer 50/50. I believe men only have 20-30% of the say these days, if any.
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I know the feeling. my wife knows nothing about me. she doesn't know where I go, what I do, problems I have.

tried years ago talking to her, I do love to communicate, but it was always talking to myself and her not listening. So I stopped.

If anyone thinks that a FB or Gf or third party will solve the issue, it wouldn't. You will be in the same shit again.

Something about women once they condition themselves, to have that response towards a person, they hardly if even go back. Self reflection and change in marriage or relationship is not their strong suit

was watching some old videos, that back in the day, the older women wouldn't let the younger daughter in laws, eat full, sit down, kept them busy, hardworking, busy. I wonder why they made younger women go through so much hardship. Of course, we are not in that age anymore, and as a china PRC said to me, women used to do everything, men were the king, now women want everything and men become the slave.

20 years ago women said they are incredible, they multi-task. They can hold down full time jobs, take care of the house, take care of the family, take care of their man. And yes, there was a time it was so.

Most women today cant cook cant clean, have strong opinions, they don't take care of their men. Men on the other hand can cook, clean, take care of themselves, but have allowed the lady so much room and respect, that its no longer 50/50. I believe men only have 20-30% of the say these days, if any.
Well said bro! It's the similar experience of many guys I talked to, from as short as couple of years to 20 years married guys. SG women has transformed so much. We used to hear it's the hubby who neglect the wife, kids, and home, but that was long time ago. These days, most often than not you are listening to stories of guys who tried to communicate with the wife but getting a cold shoulder. The sparks gone, romance died, and passion evaporated into nothing. How time has evolved!
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Are you ok? After work, I teach my kid. She goes zumba. When she is back, she asks me How's his progress. So, I give her the full executive report. You so good deal still want to complain?? So easy, why don't you teach?
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I know the feeling. my wife knows nothing about me. she doesn't know where I go, what I do, problems I have.

tried years ago talking to her, I do love to communicate, but it was always talking to myself and her not listening. So I stopped.

If anyone thinks that a FB or Gf or third party will solve the issue, it wouldn't. You will be in the same shit again.

Something about women once they condition themselves, to have that response towards a person, they hardly if even go back. Self reflection and change in marriage or relationship is not their strong suit

was watching some old videos, that back in the day, the older women wouldn't let the younger daughter in laws, eat full, sit down, kept them busy, hardworking, busy. I wonder why they made younger women go through so much hardship. Of course, we are not in that age anymore, and as a china PRC said to me, women used to do everything, men were the king, now women want everything and men become the slave.

20 years ago women said they are incredible, they multi-task. They can hold down full time jobs, take care of the house, take care of the family, take care of their man. And yes, there was a time it was so.

Most women today cant cook cant clean, have strong opinions, they don't take care of their men. Men on the other hand can cook, clean, take care of themselves, but have allowed the lady so much room and respect, that its no longer 50/50. I believe men only have 20-30% of the say these days, if any.
HI Shadow Warrior,

You are right. I dont share with her anything nowadays. I used to share everything with her and vice versa. Nowadays, it is just quiet and nothing. SHe has problems she dont talk to me..i have problems i keep to myself.

It s shitty and i guess i will just stop. She told me she has been unhappy for the longest time and that we have different values in life. BUt when i ask for exmaples, she cannot give me. basically, she just want to have status quo. and for me to give her "space". in other words, keep my distance from her. And I am doing that now.

People think i have a good wife. she is good..still good to my mum n dad but not to me.
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HI Shadow Warrior,

You are right. I dont share with her anything nowadays. I used to share everything with her and vice versa. Nowadays, it is just quiet and nothing. SHe has problems she dont talk to me..i have problems i keep to myself.

It s shitty and i guess i will just stop. She told me she has been unhappy for the longest time and that we have different values in life. BUt when i ask for exmaples, she cannot give me. basically, she just want to have status quo. and for me to give her "space". in other words, keep my distance from her. And I am doing that now.

People think i have a good wife. she is good..still good to my mum n dad but not to me.
totally understand, I started sharing my problems and many other bros started sharing too.

Realised I am not alone. And neither are you.

Heads up bro, focus on your own happiness, that means, what makes you happy, survive to the next day

I just heard one of my friends in his late 30s, have to rush back to Malaysia to settle the late affairs of his older brother just a few years older.

He was only recently married, but killed himself in depression, he was having problems in his marriage

to be honest, sometimes the other half(can be man or woman) can really push us into a corner and sometimes people just do things with no return e.g leslie cheung and many other famous people
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hey man! welcome! was it not salvageable?

Imagine in a room when she is teaching your kid and u ask her how is his progress, she ignores you even after you repeated your question the 3rd time...feel like giving her a tight slap.
already passed the salvageable zone.

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