In a serious relationship. But tempted to book FL.

[Ryuuken]

So story is like this, used to visit FLs regularly. Until I met SO, and from then on I have stopped visiting FLs and focusing solely on her. Now she gives me hj / bbbj when we're alone and that's about it. We have tried to have sex but she will say that it is pain when i try to enter her, even when i'm using 1 finger she will grimace in pain. Even when i rub her clit and paint her until my entire hand is wet with her juice, i still cannot enter without her experiencing pain. I don't know what to do. From what I know of her sexual history, she has only ever had sex once; which caused her to bleed for almost a week.

It is now almost 2 years of this, and recently have been having thoughts of booking FLs to satisfy my needs. But at the same time I do not want to do it because I do not want to let her down. She knows of this problem and my thoughts as well. Yes we are very in love.

What options are there for me to choose?

Regards,
Sexually frustruated bro

[vanityandwax]

Don't do it if you are not prepared to hide this guilt from your SO for the rest of your life.

[conquer]

Originally Posted by Ryuuken

she has only ever had sex once; which caused her to bleed for almost a week.

Dafuq, her previous boyfriend is Shaquille o'Neal?

[Ryuuken]

Originally Posted by conquer

Dafuq, her previous boyfriend is Shaquille o'Neal?

Her pussy too small apparently.. Like i said, 1 finger also pain

[hi2u]

I guess the bad past experience might have a part to play.
Not sure how it would affect her after marriage though.
Perhaps some alcohol might help to loosen things up a little?
Talk to her, and make sure you are gentle when entering her.

[ExBro]

TS

Most gals have the misguided preconceived notion that sex is like going thru the 18 levels of hell and back and penetration is like ferociously tearing the pussy apart when in reality, it could be the best thing that will happen in their lives.

This is made worse by their ex or past experience when her ex BF was not gentle enough or in his excited “Virgin” attempt, plunged in violently without making her wet enough, no lube, or has a wide girth.

You should be glad your GF is willing to give bbbj. Most local gals would not, and even if they did, they can’t do a very good job.

Just check out the many unsatisfied Bfs and husbands here and you will know.

Please read my threads below and take a leaf from the Virgin gal who has a similar, pre conceived notion and was worried then complain of pain or sore pussy.

We are slowly adjusting to the frequency and duration of our sessions, and even though we have met 8x in the past 2-3months. We are already hitting 4 climaxes each within the2-3hour meetups.

Mind you she was a V and 1st 2 session was “painful” in her recollection. But by the 8th session. She remembers only experiencing “extreme Orgasms”

She, B cupped, enjoys the Boob Enhancement massages and her squirting Yoni massages. For someone who hasn’t has her pussy touched or penetrated before. This can be mind blowing (numbing)

In the end, she wanted it more often than me.. even though I must say: I’ve a well controlled high SDrive...

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[Sandra95]

I'm no expert, but it sounds like vaginismus. Hope this can point you in the right direction to help her, instead of resorting to cheating on her.

[CheeHongGan]

If you are serious about the relationship with your gf don't find fl . Be patient with her and maybe when she is ready she will let you have sex with her .

[Ryuuken]

Originally Posted by Sandra95

I'm no expert, but it sounds like vaginismus. Hope this can point you in the right direction to help her, instead of resorting to cheating on her.

is there any solution for this i can find locally?

[ET]

All men are the same like to try new dish

[septeal]

Actually I think u should get a FL for her instead.

[I Love Boobs]

Get her lube.
Get yourself an FL.
Problem solved.
Hey, it's not quantum physics!

[JizFries]

Originally Posted by Ryuuken

is there any solution for this i can find locally?

Break off with your SO lo.. Simple as that.. Want play around still want find something serious?

[MoeLanYong]

Coming to sbf to ask for such advice is like asking monkeys if they like bananas. What other answer were you expecting??

[conquer]

I experienced one girl with a super tight cheebye as well.

Been trying several times. At the end, how did I manage to enter is like this: I made my penis totally soft first, and then "squeeze" the entire soft dick into the cheebye. Afterwards I started to shove... slowly the penis got hard. As the cheebye is too tight, I felt my penis was like locked inside. After she cum, the cheebye became to dry out and she started to feel the pain. I have to pull out and PCC... sibeh sien. Didn't really enjoy it.