Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

[chubbybastard]

Originally Posted by dman19

So true. When your girl manages to press all the right buttons or when the moment of lust comes or that little moment when small head claims a minor victory over big head, the beast inside you is released and dopamine takes over after that deciding how often or frequently it happens again. And then maybe for moments your life goes back to black and white again waiting for this next cycle to kick in. If you are able to break this cycle, I salute your self-control. But for a sexless marriage like mine, it’s way too hard with all these temptations.

Why do you stay married then? Got kids? If no kids just sign the papers. I always advocate being single. All the lovey dovey stuff is only during courtship.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by dman19

So true. When your girl manages to press all the right buttons or when the moment of lust comes or that little moment when small head claims a minor victory over big head, the beast inside you is released and dopamine takes over after that deciding how often or frequently it happens again. And then maybe for moments your life goes back to black and white again waiting for this next cycle to kick in. If you are able to break this cycle, I salute your self-control. But for a sexless marriage like mine, it’s way too hard with all these temptations.

yeah and when you have someone out of your sexless marriage and the girl cheats on you?

damn if you do, damn if you don't. Been there, live goes on

[dman19]

Originally Posted by chubbybastard

Why do you stay married then? Got kids? If no kids just sign the papers. I always advocate being single. All the lovey dovey stuff is only during courtship.

Got kids, and I still love my wife. Just that its hard to get the sex out of her these days

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by dman19

Got kids, and I still love my wife. Just that its hard to get the sex out of her these days

So how does your wife expect you to "settle" your needs?

Can't possibly be using your right (or left) hand

[dman19]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

So how does your wife expect you to "settle" your needs?

Can't possibly be using your right (or left) hand

Yeah she totally not interested these days, literally she ask me to use my hands when I try to initiate any intimacy... well that's why I'm this thread. Eventually I found a fwb and had the best sex in my life. Not sure how long it will last, but every meetup is banging good and I'm sure she have some feelings for me so sometimes need constantly remind each other that our relationship cannot go beyond fwb status otherwise must call it off

[thediviner]

Originally Posted by dman19

Yeah she totally not interested these days, literally she ask me to use my hands when I try to initiate any intimacy... well that's why I'm this thread. Eventually I found a fwb and had the best sex in my life. Not sure how long it will last, but every meetup is banging good and I'm sure she have some feelings for me so sometimes need constantly remind each other that our relationship cannot go beyond fwb status otherwise must call it off

That's what sometimes wives should be sensitive to, that because they often refuse, many other women will help your husband, with any media.