How to know if she truly loves you or just wants your money

[Darge]

我不管天长地久，只要现在拥有。

[cool69z]

we can see whether she is in love or just because of money when we are in trouble and see whether she stays or leaves us. Whatever her job, this is about character, if is in a relationship

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by kid6425

Stumble upon this thread when I need help.. maybe is fate..

Some background, started to chiong 2 years ago only when covid re-open GL. I was a virgin back then, first time was some dirty massage place to a vietbu in 30s..

After that go to fish tanks, at first was very paranoid for STDs everytime , will request for cap BJ always and no kissing even if the girl dun mind. Will go dsc for check up every 6 months or so, back then I chiong at most once a month after pay day...

Fast forward to few months ago, due to some personal and work stress, I began visit GL every week once even twice. I avoid those $60 house, found a $100 Thai house with good quality girls..

Recently I keep visiting a same girl (3-4 times) and I even gotten her line at the last visit. I haven’t message her but she told me she next week one week no work., maybe is hinting me to jio her? Idk…..

This siambu reminds me of my crush in sch last time (I loser liked a girl one sided for 3-4 years) .. I’m not sure should I just try to jio her out and make her my “girlfriend”…
I know it probably won’t end well… she may not even reply me line… but idk… need some advices from bros here

to give you a sense of realization let's find out if your girl is into you.. whenever I want thai WL I also freq this same house you're talking about. PM me the girl number and I'll tell you what she say to me. I think at least I RTF 3 girls in that same thai house (once every week for every one of them).

[galaxyass]

Originally Posted by cool69z

we can see whether she is in love or just because of money when we are in trouble and see whether she stays or leaves us. Whatever her job, this is about character, if is in a relationship

If she is in trouble, we will also do the same and vanished.... 🤣🤣🤣

[tim123456]

Originally Posted by galaxyass

If she is in trouble, we will also do the same and vanished.... 🤣🤣🤣

in the end hahaha

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by Lennyberg

I have a couple of friends who marry a viet.. 1 was from vietnam the other was already studying in Singapore. Both marriages ended in tears after years of emotional turmoil.

Only exception is if marry rich viets

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by galaxyass

If she is in trouble, we will also do the same and vanished.... 🤣🤣🤣

Hence whenever want to test water, remember to bring the wl out to eat at hawker centre and take bus and do not wear any branded. If the fl still willing to do it, then maybe can consider.

[naan1974]

Originally Posted by Chrisk456

to give you a sense of realization let's find out if your girl is into you.. whenever I want thai WL I also freq this same house you're talking about. PM me the girl number and I'll tell you what she say to me. I think at least I RTF 3 girls in that same thai house (once every week for every one of them).

It will be blantanly devastating for TS to hear what she said to other men in the room, but as a wl, its her job to lure and charm every customer with sweet lies. Well, there maybe 1 whom she is trueful to with her words, nobody knows. .
Having said that, as much as i believe these gals do have feelings, i hv to reiterate, nothing comes before money in their world. Love is just something good to have for them. They have had given up everything for the money here.

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by naan1974

It will be blantanly devastating for TS to hear what she said to other men in the room, but as a wl, its her job to lure and charm every customer with sweet lies. Well, there maybe 1 whom she is trueful to with her words, nobody knows. .
Having said that, as much as i believe these gals do have feelings, i hv to reiterate, nothing comes before money in their world. Love is just something good to have for them. They have had given up everything for the money here.

Yeah agreed on that point. Also getting their contact (Line/Wechat) is not something to be proud of. I can actually have all of them and they also reply to me, worst thing is they send the same message to all of their customers trying to talk about how hard it is to work in GL, they tired, mama/baba/sis/bro sick then after an average 5 hours++ for the reply and these other bros thinking WL love them lol. I also encounter some bros bringing food, alcohol and sometimes groceries wtf..they need to know these girls earn much more than an average person here in Singapore. They spoil the girl then what I thought WL service the customer not the other way around. If someone want to marry the WL prepare your bank account not because of the girl but because of other bros. Look at queue, check if can fight with looks, if you not confident enough then prepare your bank account and assets instead. Both got nothing then how is the customer gonna make a difference in the WL life? Three choices, FUCK then FORGET, GO HOME or GO OTHER HOUSE and you will forget these high-level GFE KC trapping thais because of vietbu topnotch service or china beauty. Besides thais do cap their BJ and hard to unlock..

[kimetae]

Originally Posted by Rubbaking

Hence whenever want to test water, remember to bring the wl out to eat at hawker centre and take bus and do not wear any branded. If the fl still willing to do it, then maybe can consider.

I'm the same as you. that's what I always do. and it's not uncommon for some wl to underestimate me haha
but this is part of testing until you find a good one

[sampat3388]

Originally Posted by Chrisk456

Yeah agreed on that point. Also getting their contact (Line/Wechat) is not something to be proud of. I can actually have all of them and they also reply to me, worst thing is they send the same message to all of their customers trying to talk about how hard it is to work in GL, they tired, mama/baba/sis/bro sick then after an average 5 hours++ for the reply and these other bros thinking WL love them lol. I also encounter some bros bringing food, alcohol and sometimes groceries wtf..they need to know these girls earn much more than an average person here in Singapore. They spoil the girl then what I thought WL service the customer not the other way around. If someone want to marry the WL prepare your bank account not because of the girl but because of other bros. Look at queue, check if can fight with looks, if you not confident enough then prepare your bank account and assets instead. Both got nothing then how is the customer gonna make a difference in the WL life? Three choices, FUCK then FORGET, GO HOME or GO OTHER HOUSE and you will forget these high-level GFE KC trapping thais because of vietbu topnotch service or china beauty. Besides thais do cap their BJ and hard to unlock..

That's the reality . but many people still fall for their tricks so they feel that they are the only ones who are treated special. forget that that's their job hahaha

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by naan1974

It will be blantanly devastating for TS to hear what she said to other men in the room, but as a wl, its her job to lure and charm every customer with sweet lies. Well, there maybe 1 whom she is trueful to with her words, nobody knows. .
Having said that, as much as i believe these gals do have feelings, i hv to reiterate, nothing comes before money in their world. Love is just something good to have for them. They have had given up everything for the money here.

Yes. There will be WLs who are out to just get whatever $$ they can from whichever willing customer they can get their hands on. If a guy can fall for it, then those will be consider as "school fees" for them.

Not all the WLs are so bad. Yes, we all are working for money but we will have some bottomline that we will adhere to. Same for them also.

Frankly, to all the WLs, the service they provide is basically similar to massage. Some WLs even don't want bf at all because they earn $$ her and manage to start some business back in Thailand that they can go back to and don't need to work as WLs anymore.

But the greatest challenge will be when all the reality of life hits. How to meet each other frequently. How to support her and support yourself. What is the plan for both of you in 5yrs? In 10yrs? And after?

[Art66888]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

Yes. There will be WLs who are out to just get whatever $$ they can from whichever willing customer they can get their hands on. If a guy can fall for it, then those will be consider as "school fees" for them.

Not all the WLs are so bad. Yes, we all are working for money but we will have some bottomline that we will adhere to. Same for them also.

Frankly, to all the WLs, the service they provide is basically similar to massage. Some WLs even don't want bf at all because they earn $$ her and manage to start some business back in Thailand that they can go back to and don't need to work as WLs anymore.

But the greatest challenge will be when all the reality of life hits. How to meet each other frequently. How to support her and support yourself. What is the plan for both of you in 5yrs? In 10yrs? And after?

The point is that extra consideration is needed

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by Art66888

The point is that extra consideration is needed

That is of course.

There are so many factors to consider. Normal cross border relationship is already a challenge. Having said that, I must say that Singaporeans gals are really losing out.

When I went drinking, almost all the busty chio gals that met my standards are all Thai gals or Vietbu or Malaysian gal. Really very few local Singaporean gals.

To be frank, I came across quite a lot of very good WLs in Geylang. Of course there are those who keep asking to buy stuff for them but I really did came across many who are really nice and sincere. They are my regulars all the way till they finished their contract. They didn't asked for expensive gifts but just enjoy the time with me. I really wish all of them well after they went back to Thailand.

[cool69z]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

That is of course.

There are so many factors to consider. Normal cross border relationship is already a challenge. Having said that, I must say that Singaporeans gals are really losing out.

When I went drinking, almost all the busty chio gals that met my standards are all Thai gals or Vietbu or Malaysian gal. Really very few local Singaporean gals.

To be frank, I came across quite a lot of very good WLs in Geylang. Of course there are those who keep asking to buy stuff for them but I really did came across many who are really nice and sincere. They are my regulars all the way till they finished their contract. They didn't asked for expensive gifts but just enjoy the time with me. I really wish all of them well after they went back to Thailand.

For them, getting working hours makes them happy to meet their working hours target. because if they already have customers, they don't need to wait for sales on that day. But it's like they already have guest savings