Has anyone faced this problem?

[rogertks]

Hi fellow Samsters, hope everyone is having a good day. I would like to share a problem that I am facing and hopefully can find people who are also facing the same issue to discuss possible solutions.

I visited FLs a few times hoping to enjoy myself and to release some "pent up frustrations", if you know what I mean. 😉 But rather than enjoying myself being serviced like a king, I rarely feel the excitement. Lil bro downstairs did get hard and stand on attention, but only for like the first 10-15 mins of the action. After a while it got fed up and went back to sleep. The shiok feeling of being pleasured began to fade away no matter how hard the girl sucked, licked and tried to please me.

The issue is that when I do it with my ex girlfriends or my current FB, I have no problem maintaining an erection and the feeling of pleasure lasts until we both cum and the sex ends. So I am thinking maybe it is due to the lack of emotional connection with FLs that is making me unable to get high during the deed.

Has anyone faced or is anyone currently facing the same problem as mine? Would like to hear your thoughts on this and if you found a solution.

[loneyheart]

Its common for most guys 40s n abv

[Gorillazx1000]

10-15 mins of action already considered very good for those over 40s....

[wtfuad]

Haha…. Ya… I realised that problem as well when I was close to hitting 40…. Not masturbating and not watching porn works for me…

[layabek93]

Its common normal

[stubbornboi]

Originally Posted by rogertks

Hi fellow Samsters, hope everyone is having a good day. I would like to share a problem that I am facing and hopefully can find people who are also facing the same issue to discuss possible solutions.

I visited FLs a few times hoping to enjoy myself and to release some "pent up frustrations", if you know what I mean. 😉 But rather than enjoying myself being serviced like a king, I rarely feel the excitement. Lil bro downstairs did get hard and stand on attention, but only for like the first 10-15 mins of the action. After a while it got fed up and went back to sleep. The shiok feeling of being pleasured began to fade away no matter how hard the girl sucked, licked and tried to please me.

The issue is that when I do it with my ex girlfriends or my current FB, I have no problem maintaining an erection and the feeling of pleasure lasts until we both cum and the sex ends. So I am thinking maybe it is due to the lack of emotional connection with FLs that is making me unable to get high during the deed.

Has anyone faced or is anyone currently facing the same problem as mine? Would like to hear your thoughts on this and if you found a solution.

How old are you bro?
When i first started with FL just last year - deep down i probably knew i won't like it and i went to try like a couple of times before being convinced that i can never do FLs because i need that sex to be consensual for pleasure rather than transactional.

[rogertks]

Originally Posted by stubbornboi

How old are you bro?
When i first started with FL just last year - deep down i probably knew i won't like it and i went to try like a couple of times before being convinced that i can never do FLs because i need that sex to be consensual for pleasure rather than transactional.

I am in my early 30s. Guess we are of the same type. Really cannot feel the excitement leh no matter how hard the girl tried. Sometimes I feel sorry for the FL...

[stubbornboi]

Originally Posted by rogertks

I am in my early 30s. Guess we are of the same type. Really cannot feel the excitement leh no matter how hard the girl tried. Sometimes I feel sorry for the FL...

About the same age bro but i'm curious is your wife not giving you the sex? :/
Like why you need to chiong when you got partner? (sorry i kpo)

I feel sorry for my own pocket hahaha
But it is what it is.

I only had 1 gf before but after broke up let me to trying FL but to no avail like what you said.
I found a fwb and i enjoy my sex with her.

[happydays1983]

Originally Posted by rogertks

Has anyone faced or is anyone currently facing the same problem as mine? Would like to hear your thoughts on this and if you found a solution.

i also faced similar issue, that's why i normally prefer to overnight, got few hours to rub it all out.

[happydays1983]

for me, even although, very good service from FL is good.

but those less experienced "green" ones are better for me.

i remember once i booked a young one, she's only 18+, she refuse to shower with me, even to the extend of asking me to go shower first while she undress (she shy to undress in front of me).

i refuse to go shower without her, i walk behind her, then try to undress her, she tried to stop me removing her shirt. my dick was really "rock hard" during that few minutes trying to undress and molesting her.

[typeone]

Bro I disagree that 40 and older have shooting problems, my ML told me an 80 man can come twice. I am not young also.

It is the lady's performance and ability, you need to try the better services ladies esp PRC ladies at $150 to $200 a pop. Then you will know what is leg shaking services.

There are lots of reviews, you may search for them.

[kg2002]

i have this issue for the second shot with my FB. It is soften after a while and cannot stand anymore. Then she asked me to remove the cap. It works and it is even stronger. So i think part and partial it is because of the condom. But pls don't do raw with FL, which is quite dangerous. Only try with your trusted partner.

[talismann]

For some of us, commercial sex lacks a certain connection as compared to FwBs. Hence after the novelty effect in the initially couple of minutes wears off, your pecker has decided he had seen enough and chooses not to cooperate. I don't think there is a obvious solution for this conundrum.

[Autumnsun]

Maintenance required. Go for proper juagen to strengthen the little bro.

[itguy2008]

Bro, age is one challenge, of course.

The other is trust. I did visit a freelancer when I was younger, in my 30s.

They moaned, and I felt they were faking rather than enjoying it.

This is my personal experience, so I am unsure if it is the same for you.