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And every women goes into a marriage with plans to sabotage it and eventually herself? Got it! Anyone told you you're a genius?
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An absolute genius! Even knows how my wife looks like without meeting her. Lol. Simply awesome! One thing though. That English. Needs some work. Loosen the angst, it might help. But otherwise. Brilliant.
Pssst: Can give me the 4 digits coming out this weekend? Thanks. |
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Take it easy TS. Life is short. Enjoy nia
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"If your wife is so pretty and so engaging, and you so happily married like what you are trying to sell, you wouldnt be spending so much time giving your worthless opinion on SO MANY threads. As to English ability, do look at your own postings. They are full of grammatical errors and the use of language resembles one with a high school education. It doesnt take much intellect to hypothesize abt your situation ie a lack of education and an ugly wife. I mean how pretty can a 40ish wife be when she has to put up with your stupidity? I can barely stomach listening to your stupid ramblings online. Imagine having to listen to you, looking at your ugly face and having sex with you? Your wife would have to be some hideous troll." There you go. Fixed. You're welcome |
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Simple past tense - wife is Conjunction - and so engaging Present continuous tense - trying to sell Third person pronoun - They are full of Simple plural - grammatical errors Vocabulary - use of language resembles one, stupid ramblings online Indefinite article - ie a lack of education and an ugly wife Synthesis and transformation - I mean how pretty can a 40ish wife be when she has to put up with your stupidity? You know, a lot of people spent a lifetime trying to master the above. Some even make a living teaching these to primary school kids (pun intended). So you are not doing them justice by classifying all these under the guise of Spell Check, ya? I am debating the points. I am showing you who is the one who lacks an education. |
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I can see why your wife left you, and why you can't hold down any relationship with your winning personality and bigoted views. "20 gf and 3 serious ones last more than 1 year" reveals a weakness, not a boast. I actually feel sorry for you. The happiness you refer to, of humping 490 women compared to me with a simple family, let me break it down for you. I hope you hump a women every hour after work. Because after you are done with your hooker, all you have left is your lonely self for the rest of the night. Feel free to pity me doing beautiful family time with my lovely wife and kids. I know nothing about happiness. I think one of us is not growing up properly. Like a caterpillar that did not evolve to a butterfly. Sowing wild oats sounds like the stuff one does when young. Then one gets married and move on to the next stage in life. Father a child, build a family. Primary 4 Science - Life Cycles. Funny how it is the caterpillar that is now boasting to the butterfly how great life is when he does not know what it feels like to fly. Don't mind me, your life is still great. Like that prostitute with her 491th customer. You and her are absolutely loving it. And I am just too dumb to realize it. You know, a minister once told me. He heard countless confessions from men before they exited this life. None has told him on their deathbeds that they wished for an extra million dollars or wished they had closed that business deal. Most told him they wished they could have spent more time with their loved ones. I hope you kept the names of those 490 whores. You know, just in case the minister should ask. There is actually nothing to debate. We live in different worlds and to each his own. Go get em tiger! Your 491st. |
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chicken and duck talk here, I think it is MS MoeLanYong vs Mr.sbfs haha, how can both world come together?
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Only that Tom bo sai pang, go stalk all my posts to pick a fight. I ying siu him lor.
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There is a lot of bullshit in this thread abt divorce and such.
Anyway, I realized after eight years that me and my partner are two completely different people. Actually, I realized it long ago, but I had this positive view that she will change over time, She has changed somewhat but the core habits and behaviors are the same and don't think she will ever change. She has good qualities but we both have very conflicting views about life and perspective about how to live our life. Earlier on, we use to quarrel a lot and fight a lot. But over a period of time, I have come to the understanding that all these quarrels and fights were basically useless as nothing is going to change or any good gonna come of it. I just decided that I would rather have a peaceful life that live a life full of nasty battles . From that day onwards, its rare to fight or quarrel ,even if she instigates me , I just brush it off as no point as nothing good is going to come off it. I just take it that we are two very different ppl living in the same house. Why don't I divorce? I don't see the benefits of it. Its going to detrimental to me, my kid and my parents. The status quo seems the best choice. After the realization and all, I live a more peaceful life and a more fruitful live. The only thing is I don't have someone to call as my soulmate that I can share my love and somene to get initimate with. |
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I will do this thread no favours by moping around like every contributor. Allow me to present a different perspective. Why does one think that marriage gives him the right to be his wife's father or priest? Why is one so quick to judge his wife's character - Oh, she has changed. Not me. She. Her fault. She has to do the "changing". Not me. I am never at fault. Don't we all change as we grow older? We see things differently. We face new challenges. But No, it is the wife's fault for changing. Or not being able to "change". I had my first love when I was a teenager. When we broke up 7 years, we were both accusing each other of "changing". I found such a relationship suffocating. It felt like a priest breathing down my neck. What she did wrong. What I did wrong. How she "changed". How I "changed". How we both should "change". We were both blaming each other every time we quarrelled. It felt miserable. Such a relationship was doomed to fail. And it did. But I learned. Enter my wife. We never talked about how each should behave. We never talked about our future. We never talked about the 3 ways to get rich, the 5 ways to invest in a hdb, the 7 things to do to build a family, etc. Heck, I never even told her I loved her or gave her a rose till AFTER we were married. We just enjoyed each other for what we were. When we were happy, we went out. When we were not happy, we went out with other friends separately. More often than not, we were happy being together. There were no promises to each other, no pressure, no nothing. We talked only about happy things when we were together. Jokes, giggles and laughter. I respected her as a person and as an individual, and vice versa. This continues up till today. Aren't you tired after a day's work? You only have that few hours left for the day. Why do you want to trap yourself by going into a topic that will lead to a quarrel i.e you wrong, I right, you changed, I didnt, can you change? Nobody will bat an eyelid when you say you and wife are "completely different" people. On the contrary, what I will find astonishing is when you say you and your wife are the same people! Because the truth is No two humans are alike. Not even identical twins. Every person reacts differently in different situations. If you haven't found that out, you have lived your life in vain. I can understand it if you are a construction worker and the way you resolve conflicts is to get personal. Oh...she....her fault....she changed...I didn't ....I holy....I angry her now. When you are capable of typing English in a forum, shouldn't you operate at a higher level than that construction worker? Isn't resolving conflict at work is a common thing? Haven't you been in the boardroom where colleagues disagree? Did you get personal with that colleague when you didn't get things your way? Or did you just agree to disagree, move on and do your work nonchalantly? Why then are you not applying these skills to your marriage? I submit to you, you have built too much expectations on your wife. You are choking the relationship. Keyword YOU. Learn to take things easy. Chill. Ditch the I TOLD YOU SO. If your wife insists on doing things her way, let her do what she wants. She is an adult after all. When she messes up, learn to laugh over it. In the grand scheme of things, it wasn't so important was it? You just wanted to WIN. Yes, there will be quarrels and disagreements. Like I said, no 2 minds think alike. Keep the quarrels infrequent. Resolve the matter quickly. Don't bear grudges. And stop bringing it up again! No one wants to be married to a historian, an accountant or a lawyer. Why are you so quick to bring up the past? So quick to calculate who is right? So quick to argue? Nobody said Marriage is easy. It is always a Work in Progress. It needs work. As you age, the anger quells. The need to be RIGHT all the time lessens. You hit your 50s, you find yourself a soulmate. |
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I put aside the r/ship and focus on my career. Travelling out of the country most of the time. Only person who is now suffering is my child which I feel very sorry. But i get very unhappy when am home for more than 2 days seeing this is not what I want, and if I want to drive towards my aspiration we end up in bitter fights. |
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Similar situation for me.
I had my separation a long time ago, now legally divorced. I’m happier this way but from time to time I miss both my boys though I’ve gotten used to it. Deep down I know I am a player and I will never change. If I had the chance I would not have gotten married etc Quote:
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I think you are coming from the perspective that I am a person who does not admit my guilt if I am wrong. I admit it and I have changed to whatever things she said I was not doing. But she didn't.
1) She had lied to me multiple times . 2) She had manipulated me multiple times. 3) She takes me for a punching bag when she has issues with her family. 4) No matter what I do, it never satisfies her. She always has something that I am not doing. 5) I have been very nice to her and she has taken advantage of that. Have I been wrong, yes certainly! I have apologized to her and changed. She knows it and has even acknowledged it. I can go on and on and on. Have you ever thought that sometimes it is the woman who is wrong. There are man who are good you know. Quote:
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Dont ever reason with a woman .....wasting of breathe. Man is always on the left and woman is always right......They expect man have to give in to them. I had enough of them too....
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