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Re: Do most girls like "handsome" guys?
Good morning!
Most men r still clueless abt girls/women. I just posted the following on my thread "Picking up KTV girls outside KTVs." <<<<<<<<<< Good morning! I hv new revelations n understandings on the important subject of man-woman RS. These hv come abt partly from readings n researching n partly from my personl experiences. There r not really new but I'll give a brief summary here. The biggest mistake we men make is to think that girls r primarily attracted to the same thing as men: Good looks n sexy body. Additionally, what many pretty SYTs say they want in a man is completely different from what their subconscious minds want. They r most attracted to a man's masculine character n emotional control/self mastery. And if you can get them to constantly think abt YOU when you're NOT around,you can make them fall for u, regardless of ur looks, height, weight, age, financial resources, status, educational level, ethnicity, nationality, etc. To make them constantly thinking abt u, you need to be uniquely different from all the men she has ever met. And you should evoke strong emotions in her, both positive n negativs...she must be confused, uncertain, yet hopeful...flip the sexual switch n she will chase u. You will surely fail if you behave like a "nice guy" or "perfect gentleman." There r startegies known as "The Mind Scrambler" n "Hate-Love-Switch." Initially, all you need is a chance to meet them face to face, even if it's for only 30 seconds. But to keep that infatuation/love going, you must establish a sexual RS w/ them n be able to give them repeated PVOs. Sorry, there is no substitute for this. BTW, I'm now certain that a healthy n pretty woman has a stronger sexual urge n needs than an average man. She plays hard to get because she only wants to be fxxked by the right MAN, usually in the context of a long term RS. KM (the cute 21 yo Sichuan gal) actually hinted at this last week. We hv been brutally honest w/ each other. Previouly, only a GF n a mistress hv openly expressed their desires to hv more frequent n wilder sex. Any comments? Bro WB >>>>>>>>>>>>>
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I agree that...
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Agreed, this an universal statement.
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girls like my shifu type, aka. Master Ah Wee.
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Girls will love his money, too
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a girl staring movie very cute, what her name?
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i'm not handsome but girls look for man like me - successful, rich, generous, humourous, kind, mature, caring & humble i may bot b handsome but guys always get a bit jealous & piss off when they see the girls around me are so beautiful, classy, even sexy etcthat's why i say property consultants are damn sak-ki siah |
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I personal experience led me to believe women when choosing life partners dont consider looks as top priority.
However women looking for sex partners do put looks as top priority. I have never been scolded for approaching women to make friends with them. Locals and foreign the same even if they reject me they do it politely. Those that end up fucking with me told me they find me good looking and so willing to go further with me.
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Very sure about it.
When I tempted my wife to experience another penis in her. All kind of reasons declining me. When I offered to go overseas to find those handsome guy for her to experience. She agreed very fast. Somehow, ang mo and Korean guys can attract her. Handsome ang mo and Korean guys.....
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I have to agree with this, esp if those girls are looking for fling and ons, esp if they are the younger casual ones.
so all depends on their character, and what they want to do with these handsome boiz - to marry? for a memorable ONS? to fulfill their fantasy? or showing off in front of their friends? to boost self esteem? etc Quote:
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This country man is range the lowest in the world, in terms of guts which is also known as mothers child. Staying with parents so to speak. However, like many Hollywood movies the disadvantage we have become a bonus to woman around the world.
All chicks need security not in terms of say her man is a fighter. A PRC young punk from Liao Ning said over there he heck people. He and his people are the fearless across PRC. So much so he has no problems in losing a limb if is heck away some day. However, I don't see any injury on his body. Well that's TCSS. I had a smile on mine face yesterday at company gathering. 2 PRC young men told a Malaysian female colleague which I overheard. They beat women with a reason if she bring them tasks during work. PRC had much to learn in understanding SEA. It so happen I brought up last episode of Crime watch. The session where that Indian national working here threaten women to provide sex or he will upload her pictures in Internet. Mine feelings the women he con many were FTs like him. Local girls I beg mine pay check she will report to police while FTs even after giving in she will keep quiet. Morale of this case, girls worship white men. I also feel his prey were Piony ladies working in this country. I told mine Malaysian female colleague all this with a Q she could never answer. If Crime Watch is not effective it is long time gone. Things are what is important or a need to stay alert is seldom taken into consideration. Does this work in the long run? Mine answer is obvious your I leave it to you. Again mine brothers over here will concur the lady DSP in this episode is a babe. Good thing she is plain cloth or her beauty is lost in blue. |
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[QUOTE=jacky43;11513456]
I had a smile on mine face yesterday at company gathering. 2 PRC young men told a Malaysian female colleague which I overheard. They beat women with a reason if she bring them tasks during work. PRC had much to learn in understanding SEA. =========== never whack woman but on other hand, never be a chow ah kua kena bully by woman I love woman - why have so many girlfriends from so many country problem is I don't have the time for all of them they complain I don't spend time for each of them! |
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Good morning!
I hv alluded to the fact that a man's looks matter much less to women. But physical appearance does matter, but not in the way most men think. A man is physically most attractive if he is very fit, neat n clean. He must not be overweigth or underweigth..why? Think n you know the answer. A male's intangible attributes such as self mastery n masculine character/personality r of paramount importance. But there is one physical attribute which is most sexually attractive to women: A V-shape male body. Broad shoulders and narrow waist n hips. A respected Ang Moh guru just sent me the following recently: Do Looks Matter As Much To Women? Finally, The Truth Dear Bro Warbird, Think that the "GQ model" type of guys who tend to catch women's eye naturally have a better dating life than you ever will? Not necessarily...not by a long shot. Here's the fascinating reason why you CAN and SHOULD do better with women than they can. All told, I think it's perfectly natural that most of us as guys would assume that other dudes who are "gifted" in the looks department would have incredible success with women, without really trying. After all, that's how it seems to go for beautiful women, so why not for men also? If a woman looks great, guys will be all over her, often (to their own potentially disastrous risk) without concern for her personality or character. And really, no matter how much we hear about how "looks don't matter" to women, we can't help but overhear them talking about how "hot" a particular guy is and/or making side comments to their girlfriends about how they may be fantasizing about him. Great, huh? According to all external evidence, it would indeed seem that men and women are a lot alike when it comes to how much looks matter, right? Not so fast. What if I told you that my direct experience tells me that how good looking a guy is has almost NOTHING TO DO with his ultimate level of success with women? Your first thought may by that I'm going to join the chorus who would sell you on the trite but persistent notion that "looks don't matter". Well, not me. Looks may in fact matter, but NOT in the way you might think. At the very least, not in the SAME WAY that how a woman looks matters to guys. Here's how it all works. First, let's look at the average guy. And for the record, by "average" I mean ANY guy who doesn't see himself as being particularly good looking. My firmly held belief is that ALL of us can be at least an "average guy" by simply caring enough to have self-respect. So please don't e-mail me in an attempt to explain how you're probably "below average", and how what I'm about to say in this newsletter still won't help you. It's the complaining about that itself that actually spells out "below average", believe me. Anyway... Since "Mr. Average" is not particularly good looking, he may think that he has less of a chance with a beautiful woman. This is predicated on logic, of course. Deep down, we all tend to feel like we should get what we think we deserve. So "Mr. Average" sees "Mr. GQ" with a beautiful woman and despairs. But then again, it always seems like the NEXT beautiful woman he sees is with a guy who he might think doesn't deserve her as much as HE does. And that frustrates him. Despair alternating with frustration. Why? Because he's assuming the women he sees must make dating and relationship decisions the way WE do as men. So he sees "Mr. GQ" as deserving, and any less handsome man with a pretty woman as simply "lucky" or something. And he resents BOTH guys. As a result of this poisonous mindset, his problem is that he can't get up the nerve to ask a woman out on a first date. But if he could just muster a bit of confidence, he may find that his masculinity, ability to put a woman at ease in his presence and his solid character could actually make women go crazy for him after they meet him. In fact, a BIG part of his frustration may even lie in knowing that if he could just get a woman on a first date, she'd LOVE HIM. ...If only, in his mind, she could get past his underwhelming physical appearance. Have you ever caught yourself thinking that? I know I have. Meanwhile, let's consider "Mr. GQ". Women naturally smile at him when they see him. They may even flirt a little more noticeably. Heck, women may even approach him first. It's not altogether out of the question that women would be throwing slips of paper with their phone number on it at him. As such, he likely has NO PROBLEM getting first dates. But when you get right down to it, a first date does NOT equal "success with women". And if you're among the legion of "Mr. Average" guys out there, you might not ever see the part that comes next. You may not even ever consider the POSSIBILITY of it, frankly. Here it is, though: I've lost count of the number of handsome guys who can get a first date with ANY woman, but who can't get a SECOND DATE to save their lives. Why not? Usually it's one of three reasons: 1) Women, ultimately can't stand to be upstaged in the looks department. Insecurity and jealousy cause them to run away. They literally prefer not to date someone "prettier" than they are. (And for what it's worth, YES...this means you should feel empowered to go after women who are better looking than you are. They'll actually like you MORE than women who aren't.) 2) The guy falls for his own shortsighted belief that women make dating decisions the same way men do, and therefore develops an arrogant attitude based on his looks. Women like good-looking guys, but they can't stand arrogant ones. Mark that. 3) It turns out the guy is either BORING or a flat-out WUSS behind that "pretty boy" façade. Game over. Isn't the big picture here a little bit crazy? "Mr. Average" doesn't get a FIRST DATE...mostly due to having psyched himself out with negative self-talk. "Mr. GQ" can't get a SECOND DATE...for one (or all) of the reasons listed above. In the end BOTH GUYS FAIL with women. And the most breathtaking part of this whole scenario? Both men actually have the SAME PROBLEM. Neither guy has the ability to CHOOSE the women he really wants. Whether that means "short term fling" or "long term relationship" is irrelevant. If ANY guy fails to create deep attraction in a woman, he's getting nowhere with her. And remember, this is REGARDLESS OF LOOKS. What's the net/net of all this? It's simple. Good looks may help a guy catch a woman's eye up front, but really only matter as it pertains to HOW and WHEN success or failure with women presents itself. And yes...an "average" guy may need to take a more objective approach to getting a woman's attention initially. But ultimately, only the "Big Four" (Confidence/Masculinity/Inspiring Confidence/Character) matter when it comes to truly attracting her...that is, on YOUR TERMS and for as long as you'd like her to be in your life. And the bottom line is that ONLY guys who are in control of their dating lives can expect to have success with women. In the example given above, neither "Mr. Average" nor "Mr. GQ" has CONTROL over his dating life. They don't hold the cards when it comes to deciding which women they want to keep around for any length of time. So if you think about it, whether a guy feels like he has a hard time GETTING a woman's attention or KEEPING it, the problem is ultimately the same: He doesn't have the women in his life that he wants. And by the way, if you think that the good looking guy may still have one-up over "average" guys because he can get the "quick lay" out of the transaction before he ultimately blows it, guess again. As I've shown you before in the past, high quality women DO NOT make decisions regarding who to sleep with the same way guys do. Without "Big Four" substance, ANY guy can forgett about it. But with the "Big Four" in full effect, you essentially weed out just about ALL of your competition in today's modern, neutered world replete with confused men...good-looking and otherwise. I can hear someone asking, "Yeah, but what about women who AREN'T high quality?" What about 'em? If a woman has low self-esteem and the lower standards that go with it, the irony is that a more "average" guy may have a better chance, as it were, even with her. I personally thank my lucky stars that I DON'T have "model looks", but that I know what the "Big Four" are and recognize their importance. My experience with women has been way less complicated that way, and far more successful. How about you? Can you adopt that mindset and take full advantage of the power it holds? Be Good, Mr. YKL
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Good evening!
I'm surprised that there has not been a refutation to my post. Oh, there is something else I want to add. If you perceive yourself to hv less sexual value than your wife/GF/mistress/er nai/lover, your RS w/ her will fail. And if you believe that you don't deserve her, for whatever reason, your RS w/ her will also fail. It's a certainty. Any comments? Cheers! Bro WB
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So far I am confident in work, but in relationship with girl not yet.
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